Monday, March 24, 2014

Head Bobbers Thru March 24

Where have I been?  I dunno.  But I'm back!  Still haven't figured out what I want this blog to be about and who I want as my audience.  So goes life.

One Liner
Unknown
An ordinary marriage is simply an overflow of an ordinary relationship with God.

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Most Godly
God Loves Fred, Jonathan Storment
…to fight the monster with the monster’s game plan is to eventually become the monster. To hate Fred Phelps and to claim God does [too] is to invoke his idea of God and just replace the villains. That doesn’t mean that we can’t say certain behaviors are wrong. But If we are Jesus followers than we need to create worlds, where no matter what, whoever you are, we welcome and see the image of God in you. We’re not going to going to label and dismiss you. When we confront you it will not be because the world we have created is too small to deal with your sin, it will be because the world we created is large enough for you still.  We're loud when we disagree and we're silent when the wrong people do the right things.
Keeping It Real
If we desire enduring community, we’ll sometimes be required to sacrifice of our own priorities, even deeply felt ones, for the sake of the family, the congregation, and all those other types of committed fellowships that are increasingly disintegrating in our present day. This is a bitter pill for us as members of a culture that glorifies independence, choice, and individual autonomy. The decision to live in real community is a radically counter-cultural one

Youthful Epiphany
If I talk a big game about loving your enemy in the context of war or capital punishment but don’t give every moment and decision and relationship of my life to that kind of forgiveness, it’s all just a bunch of hot air.

Right On
In 2010, an Iowa dentist fired his assistant of ten years, because he suddenly found himself sexually attracted to her, which adversely affected his marriage. I heard plenty of people celebrate his commitment to his marriage. Fewer seemed to ask why his marriage vows or his personal lusts were her responsibility. When an adolescent boy gawks at a woman in church, we chastise her for immodesty. When girls and women are raped, we ask, “Why did she put herself in a compromising position?”  When our philosophy is “boys will be boys”, he is simply and innocently a man, but she is a temptress.

And the SIT DOWN AND SHUT UP AWARD goes to:
Too often are poor and oppressed people (especially people of color) regarded as threats here in America, while poor and oppressed people in other countries are viewed as victims. This type of perspective is dehumanizing to people here and to people abroad. To overlook the problems here and to focus on issues elsewhere sends the message that poor and oppressed American's problems are either insignificant, unimportant, or non urgent and at the same time it leads to the objectification of the "exotic other." I've seldom come across a mission group or charity organization that submitted to the leadership of indigenous people, rather they import their own ideas and solutions.