Friday, April 11, 2014


Most Maturing
An Invitation to Serve, Priscillia Bui, Mission Year

If I was placed at the school to serve, why was my ability to find joy in serving others tied to the type of work that I was doing? I realized that in serving the staff and students at the school, it did not matter the type of work that I was doing, but rather, with what type of heart I was serving with. I saw how much I was trying to make the service about myself and what I could do, rather than about those I was serving. I could do my work with a bitter and resentful heart or try to find joy in simply serving others. It was then that God revealed to me that the heart of service is simple – to serve others wholeheartedly and with joy, regardless of what the task may be…And so my question for you is, wherever you may be and whatever you may be doing, whether it is something you love or hate, what is God inviting you to and how is He inviting you to love those around you?

Question of the Week

A few months ago, my friend asked me a question, “How come we Christians get upset about the nudity in the show ‘Game of Thrones,’ but not at the violence?”

 
Listening to Bianca

Various talks by Bianca Olthoff

“The outcome of fasting is to recalibrate the heart and mind.”

“Forgiveness is to embrace the wound someone has given you…willingness to suffer discomfort for the heart of Jesus.”


They’ve Got an App for that!
10 Mobile Apps, No Make That 49, That Make Our Day, Lee Odden, Online Marketing Blog

Experts have stated that the average person has 40 apps on their mobile device, but regulary use only 4-5 of them.  So, add a few more from this list!  A few new ones for me:

·        Vine
·        Timehop
·        Grocery IQ
·        Paper

Churchrelevance.com

I love finding interesting reads. I particularly am interested in spiritual growth, ministry, church digital strategy, reconciliation, and discovering what’s cool and fascinating. That’s why I was thrilled to see Church Relevance magazine unveil their “Revamped Top Church Blogs List”. Patheos and representation are what resonate with me after going through this list.

1.      300 is A LOT.  I used up four lunch breaks to be able to look at them all.

2.      Patheos sure offers lots of content, with many Catholic, Evangelical, and Progressive Christian blogs making the list.  Seems like a good resource.

3.      If you like Justin Timberlake, go to Patheos.  The paid ads section on the right-hand side serve up plenty of JT videos from his Mickey Mouse Club days until now.  Dance on!

4.      As far as I can tell, 51% of the writers making the list were men, 20% women, and 29% various.

5.      Do the ladies feel represented?  20% is probably high compared to most Christian conferences and events.  Rachel Held Evans offers her list of women writers in response to another list.

6.      And while we’re on that, how about people of color?  5%. Low, but probably comparatively high.  Between Worlds offers her list of culturally diverse Christian writers.

7.      I wish my affilitation (churches of Christ) had more of a presence in mainstream Christiandom. We tend to keep our voices away from many conversations and conferences.  There may be reasons for that, but not here, not today.  I feel we have a lot to offer and can learn some things too.

8.      At the end of the day…er week… I walked away with 39 blogs to add to my Feedly.  That makes a whopping 83 feeds on my account!  Digital overkill, I know.  But how can one ignore potentially good content?

 
Most Conciliatory

When we demonize the other, we rarely have healthy conversations about the issue of disagreement. We divide up the world into right and wrong, and lose the ability to learn and grow from each other.
Modesty basically means to not over-estimate ourselves, it is the virtue of knowing and embracing our limitations. We don’t know everything, we don’t know for certain what’s best for the world, and no human should find themselves so certain that they can dehumanize another because they disagree with them.

Most Challenging


Most Personally Relatable
Say Anything, by Allison Vesterfelt

…my answers tend to be clouded by what I fear they will think of me....Maybe our ideas—the real ones—matter for something....If that’s the case, if what I have to say matters, I need to learn to not hold back. ...Because it’s in the sharing, I think, that healing comes, humility comes, growth comes. It’s in the sharing I’m changed, and you’re changed, and a bridge is built between the two of us.


Head Bobber

When I was doing research for my book “Monster,” I approached a white lawyer doing pro bono work in the courts defending poor clients. I said that it must be difficult to get witnesses to court to testify on behalf of an inner-city client, and he replied that getting witnesses was not as difficult as it sometimes appeared on television. “The trouble,” he said, “is to humanize my clients in the eyes of a jury. To make them think of this defendant as a human being and not just one of ‘them.’ ”

I realized that this was exactly what I wanted to do when I wrote about poor inner-city children — to make them human in the eyes of readers and, especially, in their own eyes. I need to make them feel as if they are part of America’s dream, that all the rhetoric is meant for them, and that they are wanted in this country.

Books transmit values. They explore our common humanity. What is the message when some children are not represented in those books? Where are the future white personnel managers going to get their ideas of people of color? Where are the future white loan officers and future white politicians going to get their knowledge of people of color? Where are black children going to get a sense of who they are and what they can be?

And what are the books that are being published about blacks? Joe Morton, the actor who starred in “The Brother From Another Planet,” has said that all but a few motion pictures being made about blacks are about blacks as victims. In them, we are always struggling to overcome either slavery or racism. Book publishing is little better. Black history is usually depicted as folklore about slavery, and then a fast-forward to the civil rights movement. Then I’m told that black children, and boys in particular, don’t read. Small wonder.

Because it Still Matters

"Guys like that [black guys] don't go to church."
 
How could she think that? Why would she think that?

Maybe because when Best Friend looked at the “missionary bulletin board” at her church she could spot the missionaries because they were the only whites in the picture, and the new converts and “assistants in spreading the gospel” could be identified by their brown or black skin tones.
 
Maybe because she’d been to church camps, conferences, her parents had even worked at a bible college, but she had never heard an African-American preacher or bible teacher. There must not be any Christian blacks in America or, if there are, maybe they don’t have anything worth saying.

Maybe because the only brown-skinned children to ever make a guest appearance on one of her friends’ MySpace profile pictures (yes, that’s what we used back then) was a child in a third world country that someone had met while on a mission trip — they were never neighbors, children from one of the Sunday school classes, or a friend’s younger siblings. They were the poor, the unreached.

Maybe because the only pictures of dark-skinned men and women to appear on church promotional material were for advertising a mission trip to Mexico or a fund raiser for the poor — they were never the faces of one of the bible study leaders or an upcoming conference speaker. They were the people in need, the ones we — white Christians — reached out to.

How did Best Friend get to the point where she honestly thought there weren’t any good Christian black men in America? Because she’d grown up in a family, a church, and a community that was not only extremely white, they were extremely disengaged and uninterested in issues related to race.

You The Man


Several hallmarks of “biblical manhood” look suspiciously like modern, Western, middle-to-upper class rites of passage: employment outside the home, financial independence, marriage, and fatherhood, for instance. Jesus, on the other hand, never married or had children. He abandoned his family business in favor of ministry, becoming financially dependent on others—even women. He could be tough, but he also wept in public. Day after day, he soiled his reputation as a man of God by hanging around the wrong people. In short, Jesus fails spectacularly to live up to the ideals of “biblical manhood.” This, to me, suggests that we might be off track.